Tuesday, November 18, 2014

Live is a journey and only you who hold your own map

"If you could have one wish, what would it be?
We all have hopes and dreams that we do almost anything to make it real. 
And if we get lucky, and our wish is granted, maybe that’s what we call happiness" - Sakura

That everyone have hopes and dreams, they also have to face the obstacles in the journey on pursuing theirs. One of many obstacles for people pursuing their dreams is that they have a believing that things they hopes and dreams for, won’t work. That it won't be happened. For many cases, it even happens before they start trying to pursue. It is because they’ve already determined that some odds are against them. All of these stuffs can be a bit overwhelming, but yes it does happen in the real life.

We have to realize that there are 3 things we need to have to achieve goals of our dreams. Opportunity, hard work and luck. These three components are relate each other and have to exist in order to accomplishing the goals. Anywhere the opportunity is exist, don't get hesitate to work on it by start over the preparation and do the implementation of the planning well, do it as best as you can. While Luck, happens when hard work meets the opportunity in sinergy.

So what happened in many cases when people have struggling so hard to pursue their dreams but it stand still haven't work yet? Does it means they are failure and have to stop pursuing their dreams? In these terms, there are so many possibilities may have a hand involved in it. It may happen because the opportunity isn't exist yet, or they contemplating the wrong opportunity, setting an improper plan, implementing a strategy which goes too far beyond the basic plan, making a bad decision in unpredictable situation, or any others. Some other reasons may because they still haven't sure yet about what their real dreams were. Nevertheless, don't make your self too rush judging all things has happened as a grave of your dreams. You don't know how far or how close you are to your goal at that time. As long as the opportunity is still there, sometimes it is okay to turn left, to turn right or even to turn around, finding another way to going thru to meet your goal. Remember that the road does not always run just straight.

Do not see failure or success as the only end goal when it comes about pursuing your dreams. In the real life, many people falls into a gray area and dream-chasing is no exception. View life as a big maps of your journey where what happens along the way is just as important as reaching the end goal. You would receive lot of experiences which u can learn. You may also developed some great skills on your way going thru the journey. It is a good chance for yourself to grow and going mature; and it’s very life-affirming.  

Pursuing the dreams can take a lot of courage and dedication to do. All the experiences we get along the journey will make every bits of the effort we put into it worthwhile. That's why for every opportunity is wide open, why don't we try to pursue our dreams? – no matter what. 

Love, CY

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